Yes. HIV is now a manageable chronic condition, not a death sentence. With antiretroviral therapy (ART), people with HIV can live long, healthy lives with a normal life expectancy. ART suppresses the virus to undetectable levels in the blood, meaning it cannot be transmitted sexually (Undetectable = Untransmittable, or U=U). Most people on modern ART take a single tablet daily and experience minimal side effects. HIV does not prevent you from having children, working, or having a fulfilling life. In the UK, HIV care is excellent and free on the NHS. The biggest barrier to good outcomes is late diagnosis — testing early is life-saving.

PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) is a 28-day course of antiretroviral drugs that prevents HIV infection after a potential exposure. It must be started within 72 hours — the sooner the better. PEP is available from A&E departments, sexual health clinics, and some GUM clinics 24/7. It is free on the NHS for NHS patients. PEP is not a substitute for PrEP or condoms and should be used only in genuine emergencies (unprotected sex with a known HIV-positive person not on suppressive ART, condom failure, sexual assault, or needlestick). After completing PEP, an HIV test at 45 days and 3 months confirms whether infection was prevented.

STI testing is recommended annually for all sexually active people. Those with new or multiple partners should test every 3 months. Testing is free at NHS sexual health clinics and from online services (SH:24, SHGM). You do not need symptoms to be tested — most STIs cause no symptoms. A full STI screen covers chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis, HIV, hepatitis B, and hepatitis C. Specific sites tested (urine, swabs, blood) depend on your sexual practices. Results are usually available within 1–2 weeks. Positive results trigger automatic partner notification advice.

Not all STIs are curable, but all are treatable. Bacterial STIs — chlamydia, gonorrhoea, and syphilis — are fully curable with antibiotics when diagnosed promptly. Viral STIs — HIV, herpes, HPV, and hepatitis B — cannot be cured but can be effectively managed. HIV is controlled with ART to the point of undetectability. Herpes is managed with antivirals that suppress outbreaks. HPV often clears naturally within 1–2 years in people with healthy immune systems. Genital warts can be treated and removed, though the underlying HPV virus may persist. The key message: all STIs are manageable with prompt diagnosis and treatment.

Without treatment, chlamydia can persist silently for months or years, causing progressive damage to the reproductive tract. In women, untreated chlamydia causes pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) in 10–15% of cases, leading to tubal factor infertility, chronic pelvic pain, and ectopic pregnancy risk increased 6–10-fold. In men, chlamydia causes epididymo-orchitis, which can impair sperm production and quality. Reactive arthritis (formerly Reiter's syndrome) — involving joint inflammation, eye inflammation, and urethritis — is a rare but recognised complication. These complications are entirely preventable with prompt diagnosis and a simple 7-day course of doxycycline.

Gonorrhoea is increasingly difficult to treat due to rising antibiotic resistance. The current UK first-line treatment is a single intramuscular injection of ceftriaxone 1g. A test of cure is required 2 weeks later to confirm eradication. Azithromycin is no longer recommended routinely due to resistance. Multidrug-resistant gonorrhoea has been identified in multiple countries, including the UK. If you have been treated for gonorrhoea and symptoms persist, return to the clinic immediately — do not take additional antibiotics without guidance. Treatment of all recent sexual partners is essential to prevent reinfection.

Syphilis in pregnancy can cause miscarriage, stillbirth, premature birth, and severe congenital syphilis in the newborn (causing bone, liver, brain, and skin disease). All pregnant women in the UK are offered a syphilis blood test at their first antenatal appointment. Treatment with benzathine penicillin G during pregnancy is safe and highly effective at preventing mother-to-child transmission. If you are pregnant and believe you may have been exposed to syphilis, seek urgent testing and treatment. Contact tracing of all recent partners is mandatory. Untreated syphilis in pregnancy is one of the most preventable causes of neonatal death.

PE affects approximately 20–30% of men at some point — making it the most common male sexual dysfunction. Many men suffer in silence due to embarrassment, assuming it is shameful or untreatable. In reality, PE is a well-recognised medical condition with highly effective treatments. Dapoxetine (a short-acting SSRI licensed specifically for PE) can more than triple ejaculatory latency time in clinical trials. Behavioural techniques (stop-start, squeeze) are effective for lifelong PE. Combining medication with psychological or couples therapy produces the best outcomes. Most men with PE who seek treatment experience significant improvement.